Barker Mediation Services
Divorce Mediation
Divorce Mediation : Are you looking for a Peaceful Way to Separate?
Divorce can be one of the most difficult things you will do in your life — emotionally, financially and practically. At Barker Mediation, we can help you sort out all the important things that need to be arranged as a result of separation — everything from finances to future contact to child arrangements — in a structured and respectful way.
Our trained mediators assist couples with reaching fair solutions to disagreements in England and Wales without the cost, delay and stress of contentious court proceedings. That means you decide the decisions that impact your future, via mediation. Our team are all members of the Family Mediation Council.
What Is Divorce Mediation ?
Divorce mediation is a neutral, confidential process in which an impartial, trained mediator helps you and your partner negotiate agreements on key issues such as:
- Sharing of finances and property
- Child arrangements and parenting plans
- Future communication and co-parenting strategies
- Supporting ongoing relationships with children
A mediator doesn’t pick a side or decide for you — they help you discuss what options are best and work out solutions that fit your family. Such an approach often results in faster, less adversarial resolutions than court processes. The number of mediation sessions you need varies. We understand that family disputes are all unique. Family mediators have years of experience and a wide knowledge of family law. This will allow you both to reach an amicable resolution in a safe space.
Why Choose Divorce Mediation Over Court?
Compared with traditional litigation, mediation offers several real advantages:
- Lower costs: Mediation is typically far more affordable than court battles.
- Faster resolution: Agreements can often be reached in weeks or months rather than the long delays associated with court proceedings.
- Preserved relationships: The collaborative process reduces conflict — especially important when children are involved.
- Confidentiality: Unlike court cases, mediation remains private and is not part of the public record.
- Control and flexibility: You design your own agreement rather than leaving outcomes to a judge.
Many couples find that agreements reached through mediation lead to better long-term cooperation and clearer routines for family life after divorce.
How the Mediation Process Works
Initial Assessment (MIAM)
Before joint mediation begins, each party usually attends a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). This meeting explains the mediation process, checks suitability and allows you to ask questions. Book your appointment with a neutral mediator. This is the first step in the divorce mediation process.
Joint Sessions
You and your ex-partner meet with the mediator to discuss your priorities, concerns and options. Many clients find online mediation a good option so that they don’t have to disrupt their parenting schedule, and give peace of mind that they can be more flexible with their appointments.
Private & Structured Dialogue
The mediator ensures both voices are heard and helps you work through compromises and potential solutions. The aim will be to find a suitable divorce settlement agreement so that you can avoid a lengthy court battle. Family mediation works to resolve many disputes. We offer a supportive environment to looking at resolving a family breakdown. We offer practical solutions. inclusive mediation and a safe space to reach the best solution quickly and peacefully.
Reaching Agreements
When you find common ground, your mediator will help draft a summary of agreed terms that can form the basis for formal legal documentation — such as a consent order if you want them made legally binding. Your specially trained mediator will allow a confidential space with which to reach a resolution in less time than battling through court.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Do we have to attend mediation before going to court?
No, mediation is not legally required for divorce itself, but if you want to ask the court to decide financial or child arrangements, you will usually need to attend a MIAM first. This the the first meeting that you need to attend in order to progress in any divorce process.
How much does mediation cost?
Costs vary depending on your circumstances, but mediation is generally much cheaper than court. You may also be eligible for financial help — for example, the UK Family Mediation Voucher Scheme can contribute up to £500 towards mediation costs.
Is mediation confidential?
Yes. And mediation is a confidential process; what you discuss won’t be used in court unless both parties consent, and even then, only in rare cases when safety concerns arise. You can include other family members in the mediation if they are of an appropriate age.
What if we can’t reach a consensus about everything?
Mediation doesn’t guarantee that all issues will be resolved, but it often reduces the scope of disputes and can make any future legal proceedings shorter and less expensive if necessary. In the process of divorce you may wish to loose at division of finances, child custody, financial matters and more.
Can mediation cover children’s arrangements?
Absolutely. Mediators help you work through parenting plans, contact schedules and arrangements that focus on children’s best interests. In some cases, mediators can also involve children safely and appropriately. Our family mediation services can cover child support and look at a settlement agreement.
Do you have more questions?
Contact our team today and speak to discuss your requirements. Divorce can be an emotional and upsetting time – we are here to help you find a way through! Call us on 03300 100 151 or request a call back below!